In a series of articles for Montreal Anglican
Mark Dunwoody, diocesan youth
consultant, is interviewing youth
workers from across the Diocese of
Montreal who selflessly give up their
own time to serve our young people! Here he interviews Lee-Ann
Matthews, youth coordinator at
St. Thomas’ N.D.G. and formerly the rector’s
warden at St Philip’s Montreal West.
MD: Lee-Ann, tell us a bit about
yourself.
LAM: OK. Sure. Let’s see – I’m in
love with my two dogs and my cat. I
devote lots of time and energy to
their care. I live a healthy active lifestyle that includes a daily yoga and
meditation practice. I got divorced
last year a after a 13-year marriage and
I came out as a lesbian at the age of
42. I am currently in a happy stable
relationship with my partner.
MD: How long have you been
involved in working with young
people and what made you get involved
LAM: I’ve been working with kids
since I graduated from Concordia
University in 1994. I obtained a
degree in child studies with a minor
in religion. At that point it was my
intention to receive a teaching certificate
in “Moral Religious Education”
from McGill but the universe
had a different plan for me as my application was returned, saying that
as of that year, the program was no
longer being offered. This was a real
blow at the time and I felt entirely
derailed but I had student loans to
repay so decided to embark on a
career as preschool educator. I really
enjoyed this work and met some
amazing inspirational people who
taught me so much. About five years
ago, I discovered a phenomenal yoga
teacher! This was a transformative experience for me and I began to
uncover so many benefits (physical,
emotional and spiritual) from my
yoga practice that I couldn’t resist
bringing yoga into my classroom. I
was very interested in teaching kids
yoga but it was obvious that kids
didn’t respond to yoga as adults do. They wanted to move more and to
have fun and “play” yoga, not sit in a
serene, meditative space on an
intense personal journey. So, I decided to get trained to teach children’s
yoga. In 2009 I received my
first certificate in children’s yoga
from the Radiant Child program at
Kripalu Centre for yoga and health
in Massachusetts. I have subsequently
attended teacher training at
the “Yoga Kids” foundation and
numerous conferences and am completing
another certification right
now. The first time I taught a kids’ yoga
class following my first training I
knew that something magical had
happened. I called my teacher and
gushed about my new found passion
and the amazing impact of her
teachings. I have a voracious appetite for information on this topic
and for children’s spirituality in general.
I teach yoga to kids aged 2-15 in
schools, churches, at home, and in
my studio.
MD: It sometimes can be thankless
job being a youth leader. What
keeps you going?
LAM: Actually, of all the work
that I have done with kids for the
past 18 years, this position has been
one of the most gratifying. I love
providing a context for kids to access
and express their spirituality.
Since I began the position at St Thomas Church in January of this
year [2012] I have truly felt blessed. I know
when I am aligned with divinity
somehow because I sense it in the
group dynamics, the energy, the
ideas and enthusiasm. Everything just
seems to flow freely. I am so charged
to be a part of this amazing group.
Honestly, it is the most rewarding
work! Children’s spirituality is a vital
part of who they are and to be able to
acknowledge them in this way is so
validating.
MD: As a diocese (and across the
Church of Canada) we are seeing a
concerted effort at prioritizing youth
ministry. What advice do you have
for the decision makers in our
churches?
LAM: We need to stop telling kids
how to pray, how to feel, what to
wear etc. and to start listening very
acutely to what their needs are, what
their influences are and get to know
who they are fundamentally. We
have to stop assuming we know
about youth ministry based on former
models and humble ourselves
before our children. Young people
aren’t attending church because it
isn’t relevant to them. We need to
create environments that are conducive
to self-expression and creativity
with open-ended activities
that provide opportunities for worship
and spiritual nurturing. We need
to think entirely out of the box. We
need to make church relevant. And
we have some stiff competition!
MD: What “wow” moments have
you had in your work.
LAM: When I teach meditation or
a “listening” prayer I am ofen
amazed at the sense of reverence and
devotional energy that arises. There
is a peacefulness, a sense of calm and
a powerful sense of connection to
Spirit. Kids use very positive
descriptive language when asked
how this type of meditation feels. I
get goose bumps and feel so happy
and blessed to be making these connections
together.
MD: On a lighter note, have you
had any really embarrassing
moments in your work?
LAM: Yes! Of course, All the time!
On an average day working with
kids I am doing and saying embarrassing
things. Making mistakes and
laughing at myself. But I have tried
to facilitate meditation with certain
kids and have them whisper a prayer
or a word and all that would come
out of their mouths was hysterical
contagious uncontrollable laughter. The atmosphere is not always serene
and reverent and sometimes my
grand plans at conjuring peace back
fires and all we do is laugh. There actually is a well-recognized practice
of yoga called Laughter Yoga. I guess
by default we could just call it that!
MD: Last Question: What advice
do you have for the synod office in
our mission to serve young people
LAM We need to create a task
force, a team of people who are committed
to the work of kids and youth
and bringing them into the light of
our Lord. And we need to include
children in all of our thinking and
not just compartmentalize youth
groups to dingy basements and tuck
them away. We need to revitalize the
church proper with the amazing
energy of children and youth and
remember the true value of young
people as profoundly spiritual
beings.
Source: Montreal Anglican
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